reboot instead of shutdown :-(

when i shutdown on my raspberry pi it reebots automatically but i pressed shutdown

Not 100% sure but as far as I know the raspberry pi cannot be “shutdown”. Since there are no hardware switches you can’t put it back on (unless you can use Wake on Lan I guess), normal procedure is to unplug the rpi to shut it off and plug it in to turn it on.

raspberryshake.com/shutting-down/